We received lots of nice cards from Britain for our wedding anniversary. One of them, at first glance looked more like a left-over Christmas card. On closer reflection however I thought there was a great meaning there for my husband and me. He can ski, I can't.
In marriage or a partnership, each one has to help the other by doing what they can do best. At the beginning roles are chosen quite unconsciously. Who is going to be the one who calms down situations, who is going to make the tea in the morning. Just be careful that you only take on roles that you can sustain. If you want to be the strong one, the one that's always right, then you have to keep it up. All this being said, taking it for granted that you have already decided that you are deeply in love and want to wake up next to each other for the rest of your lives.
|Lots of wedding anniversaries have a meaning|